Jhe philosopher Plato said that music “gives soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and charm and cheerfulness to life and everything”. The incomparable jazz musician Louis Armstrong wrote, “Music is life itself. Then there is the great pianist Arturo Benedetti Michelangeli, who said, “Bad music bothers me, but good music bothers me even more”, and Oscar Wilde, who is said to have written, “Music makes us so romantic, du the less it still bothers us. nerves, which is the same today.
The right song can make any moment magical, even transcendent, while the wrong one can ruin the whole mood. You probably already know this if you’re in the overwhelming throes of wedding preparation. It’s hard to decide which songs will perfectly capture the unique essence of your love while creating and maintaining the perfect atmosphere. And just as you’ve probably learned other aspects of planning your big day, you can’t please everyone.
Instead, focus on what you and your loved one will be most excited to hear on your big day (and maybe throw in a guided dance number or two, just to keep everyone engaged. ). Here are 10 ideas for songs to play at your wedding.
“LOVE” by Nat King Cole
It’s a heartwarming classic that will unite generations and have everyone singing along. That’s right whether they first heard it when it was released in 1964 or when it starred in the iconic 1998 opening credits. parent trap remake.
“A Case of You” by Joni Mitchell
“A Case of You” was released on Joni Mitchell’s seminal 1971 album Blue. Some say it was inspired by the singer’s relationship with Graham Nash, while others believe it was written about Leonard Cohen. Either way, it’s one of the most romantic tracks of all time and the perfect song for a meaningful slow dance moment.
“I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me)” by Whitney Houston
Whitney Houston wanted to dance with someone who loved her, just like everyone else at your wedding! (Or at least someone who will give them a good time on the dance floor.) One of the best parts of a wedding is the opportunity it provides to surround yourself with loved ones and celebrate. , so use Houston’s unprecedented exuberance as a chance to pull your friends off the floor.
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“Good Grief” by Bastille/”Good Grief (Don Diablo Remix)” by Bastille, Don Diablo
Many people have lost someone they loved very much and would like to see at their wedding. “Good Grief” taps into that feeling of wanting to share your joy with someone you miss and creates an opportunity for remembrance (without interrupting the event like, say, “Candle In the Wind”). The remixed version is even more upbeat and danceable enough that, while it still delivers a moment of bittersweet catharsis, it’s possible half the guests would blithely drop into a song about heartbreak and not even notice.
“I Belong To You” by Brandi Carlile
Brandi Carlile’s soulful voice and soulful lyrics provide another opportunity to slow things down and revel in the beauty of your big day and your love for your partner. “I know I could be spending a little too much time with you,” she sings. “But time and too much don’t go together like we do / If I had all my yesterdays, I’d give them to you too / I’m yours now.”
“Every Time We Touch” by Cascada
There’s nothing like a throwback to get people excited, especially one that’s aged like fine wine. Whether your guests first heard this song when it went platinum in the US and the soundtrack to high school dances around the world, or they are getting to know it for the first time at your wedding. , whenever “Everytime We Touch” plays, everyone has a good time. (And every time we kiss, I swear I could fly.)
“Make Me Feel” by Janelle Monae
“Make Me Feel,” an infectious bop that Janelle Monáe says was influenced by Prince, is an ideal choice for celebrating yourself and your love while you feel yourself and each other.
“Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman / “Fast Car (Steegra Remix) by Tracy Chapman, Steegra
“Fast Car” is a powerfully romantic and hopeful folk-pop song that reached No. 6 on the Billboard Hot 100 and won Tracy Chapman a 1989 Grammy for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance. The remix is also all of that, but faster and with more synthesizer – choose whichever suits your audience best.
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Cupid’s “Cupid Shuffle”
Of course, it’s corny. But every wedding needs an icebreaker song – something that brings people to the dance floor with the reassuring promise that they’ll be told exactly what to do by the song itself, and that they won’t have to. don’t look dumber than anyone else.
“Single Women (Put A Ring On It)” by Beyoncé
Nothing beats the outright triumph of dancing with your fresh-hit spouse to a song you’ve probably heard a thousand times, knowing that this time, you both liked it so much that you did Put a ring on it. Bonus points if someone at the wedding starts dancing from the music video (and extra bonus points if that person is you and your partner).
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